Do most people know why the Kurds can never have a homeland?

for example even though you are of kurdish background you can be chrisitan, sunni or shiite , you can live in turkey and speak kurdish but yet have no clue what iraqis, syrian or iranian kurds speak. to diverse as a society. furthermore by attempting to give iraqis kurds some autonomy you will have a direct war with turkey, iran and syria. it is just interesting that the US is trying so hard to seperate iraq in 3 and actually paying each kurd to move to kirkuk $10,000 US. but they dont realize it wont work.