Tiger woods and double standards?

now i talked about this before in someone else's question and wanted to know how people are viewing this. The public seems to belittle the man for his over active libido but nothing is said about his wife's anger problem. And this has me concerned she hit him with a 9 iron and he drove his car into a tree yet he is still to blame.Granted he did sleep with a truck load of strippers. But in America Everyday there are cheating wife's who do just about the same thing to their husbands if a husband acted like this he would see jail time, lose his job, lose custody of his children. Society says men are just supposed to take the abuse and women actually reinforce the idea that if a women cheats there is something wrong with the guy which i find astounding because why the hell did you marry him in the first place.And what is truly sad is this double standard actually has men afraid to press charges for fear of looking like a wimp.While our youths see this mess and understand that women are allowed to hit even to use object's if the reason calls for it with little repercussions or none.And while feminist say that this type of behavior is wrong they always seem to side with the women to get her out of trouble in court cases where a man has pressed charges adding even more reinforcements to the already outdated and hypocritical double standard which they say they oppose.